Monday, 17 February 2014

Xmas 2013 - The Beginning

Hello world.
I'm Daisy. I thought I would start up a blog to share stories of my life with the world. But stories have got to be interesting right?  Or funny. Well you will find all that here.

Lets start with a bit about me. I'm a 26 year old female from Edinburgh. Young free and single may I add ;). But I've not been single for long, oh no. My now ex-boyfriend and I had been together for nearly two years. We had spoke about marriage and kids and had looked at buying a house. Life couldn't have been more prefect.
Although he had an obscene obsession with cars and motorbikes I was willing to let that slide as he did not like football and rarely drank. To find a man who doesnt like football is an achievement in itself, but one who doesnt like beer either... Score!!!
Anyway after being together for nearly two years, overcoming many weeks and months of time apart, due to him being in the armed forces, being away on course down south, in Kenya and even being posted in Afghanistan for 6months, I didnt think there was much else that could keep us apart. Well thats what I thought.
We were spending our second christmas together. We were driving through to his parents house in Glasgow which is something we offen done. But this time his mate was in the car too. You know what guys are like when their mates are around... He started driving like an absolute dick, speeding and deciding then it was a good time for him to get his mobile phone out and start looking at facebook or some shit like that. Anyway I sat in the back of the car just keeping quiet as I didnt want to look like the complaining girlfriend having a go at him. I knew this was very ourt of character for him.
Looking back on the day I can see he was very distant, but at the time I didnt want to admit to myself that there was anything wrong. Anyway the rest of the day was so so. I slept in the car on the way back because he was chatting to his pal in the front and I was just getting ignored.
And then.... The next day... Two days after xmas... He decided that without talking to me or anything he was going to dump me. Now for anyone whos been in a long term relationship and has maybe fallen out of love, or just dont feel the same way as they have previously felt, or any other shit excuse for breaking up with someone, how would you break up? Send a text saying "we need to talk" or "can i come round to chat tonight?"  Those are what semi normal people would do. Hahaha but not my fucking coward of an ex. He used Facebook! Fucking Facebook private mail! How can you go out with someone for two years, plan your whole lifes together then one day decide you've had enough and dump them via fucking Facebook. I thought i'd had enough drama in my life but this took the absolute biscuit. So that was the end of him, and a complete waste of the last two years of my life.

I made sure I told everyone what happened so I'd never be daft enough to take him back if he came back crawling after realising he had let go of the best thing to have ever happened to him.

As that happened just after christmas, that ment only one thing... New year was just around the corner and that ment the start of a new year and a new me! Let the (internet) dating commence!!!

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